She is such a sweet BIG sister and is having so much fun with Baby Harvey
{we are noticing she is a little whiny...she was the baby for so long, I think she's a little shell shocked!}
{He's been so busy at work, I feel like he hasn't had much time to do this}
{Thanks Robyn!}
He sleeps in his bed much better at night since we've been swaddling
"WHO bought him THAT?!"
{in this picture Abbey was mad that Makayla got to be on that side, because that's the way he was facing!!}
HONESTLY :)
If I could describe this first week with my sweet baby Harvey, in just a word or two, it would be JOY...pure JOY! I have enjoyed him so much!
RJ wasn't able to take much time off {busy at work, this is a blessing...right?} and I was worried I would feel overwhelmed. But each of my wonderful sister-in-laws came and took Makayla every afternoon this week, while Abbey was in school. I was able to nap {which is the key to my joy, I think} and have a few hours alone with my baby. It was a wonderful blessing and an amazing experience to have that time, just us. We nursed, snuggled, and snoozed. It was great!
Our first night at home was rough. Harvey wouldn't nurse at all! I got him to eat on one side {after an hour of trying and praying} and he didn't eat again the rest of the night. He would fuss and cry and when I'd put him down to nurse he would SCREAM. He'd take his binki and sleep okay as long as he had that and was in our arms! My milk had come in and he had such a hard time getting going. Finally, the next morning at about 8:30 {after a good 30 minutes of trying} He was eating away.
The first few days we were home, Harvey was still SUPER sleepy. He was eating about every 6 hours, with some gentle coaxing from me... He was so sweet and so content. He'd have a few minutes a day of "awake" time, and he'd just stare around so calmly. We weren't getting a lot of sleep, but I just enjoyed him, even at 2:00 AM! He could sleep ALL DAY in his bassinet, but at night, he just wants to be held. I started swaddling him {thanks to Robyn} and that has helped. Now he spends a few hours in his bed at night, and we are working on more and more!
He had his first sponge bath on Tuesday. He wasn't too fond of the cold or the wet, but he seemed to enjoy having his hair washed. AND ooh, he smelled sooo sweet when he was done.
By Wednesday he was eating about every four hours, and Thursday he started waking, on his own, to eat every 3 hours. It was good to see his appetite pick up. He hasn't slowed down since!
Thursday I had to take him in to the doctor to have his circumcision checked. He was down to 6 lbs 12 oz. Dr. Kaddu was slightly concerned that he had lost so much weight. At this point, his appetite was increasing, and Dr. Kaddu wants me to come in next week and have him weighed again, just for good measure. Everything else checked out great. I told Dr. Kaddu I was a little worried that he hadn't peed all over yet. {everyone kept telling me the horror stories of little boys spraying pee all over} He told me that it was probably because he hadn't been eating very well. At that moment {he was checking his circumcision} He peed ALL OVER! It was great. This made Dr. K feel better, because that meant he was probably eating better. YAY for Harv :)
Friday, my friend Robyn came and took newborn pictures of Harvey. I wish this had been around when the girls were little {I'm sure it was around, just not as common} They were so fun, and I cannot wait to see them!
We're getting the hang of things and Harvey is the sweetest thing around. We are enjoying every minute, and he is very patient with his ever-loving big sisters. They LOVE to hug, snuggle, kiss, and talk to him. They are so sweet and they have been a big help to me, grabbing me water, diapers, wipes, binkis...whatever I need. We just need to work on them getting along with each other!
We love you baby Harvey. What a fun week we have had with you!
Week ONE highlights
**When he's done nursing and he pulls away and has milk all over his face. He looks so satisfied
**When he arches his back and puckers his lip
**Sleepy snuggles {the best and they never last long enough}
**When he grabs my finger with his sweet little hands
** Spontaneous smiles
Hopefully I won't go with this much gusto every week! They just change so fast in these first few weeks, I want to be sure and document him and how much we are ENJOYING every minute with him!
1 comment:
He is SO sweet!! I want to eat him up those cheeks are definitely nibblin cheeks!
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